Bridesmaid and Best Man Drama

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Should I invite my friend to be my BM, even though her ex will be best man and they don't get along?
    Yes- it doesn't hurt to try; she can decide for herself whether she wants to take part : (17 votes)
    71 %
    No- there's already drama between them. Do you really want that on your wedding? : (3 votes)
    13 %
    Other (please elaborate below) : (4 votes)
    17 %
  • Post # 3
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

    Is your wedding in 2016? You don’t need to be worrying about this until 2015, especially if things are shakey with these people now.

    Post # 4
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    3084 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    @whoa_its_ash:  I agree. Just wait. You don’t want to regret it and be stuck. 

    Post # 5
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    563 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @whoa_its_ash:  Definitely agree.

    @Papillion:  You could have a completely different set of best friends when 2016 rolls around 🙂 I used to talk with friends about who my BMs would be and they have definitely changed since I first had that discussion!

    Post # 7
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    563 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @Papillion:  Don’t worry too much about it yet! When Aug 2015 rolls around, start putting some serious thought into your bridal party, but don’t ask anyone before then! You could meet a new best friend 🙂 I met a new friend in 2009 and was her MOH 2 years later & she will be a BM in my wedding! If anyone asks, just tell them you haven’t started planning yet. Your wedding is 3 years away, so I think they’ll understand 🙂

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