(Closed) Bridesmaid bringing her own hair stylist?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Should my BM be able to bring her own hair stylist to our hotel room?
    Yes : (26 votes)
    60 %
    No : (16 votes)
    37 %
    Other, please explain : (1 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
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    8738 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I would check with the stylists you hired and make sure there is nothing in their contracts stating you cannot have another hair stylist there at the same time.

    Post # 4
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    9029 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I dont think this should be an issue. How many rooms do you have? If you have more than one room than this BM and her SIL can go do their hair in another room.

    Post # 5
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    42 posts
    Newbee

    I voted No. I agree with that the situation would be weird. Can we say DIVA!? What the heck is wrong with her? Unless she has some special hair issues I think that the hair stylist you chose should be able to replicate the hairstyle she has in mind. If not then she should get her hair done by her SIL at home or at SIL home if it’s close by.

    Post # 7
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    2116 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I don’t think it should be an issue at all. I’m sure the other stylists wont care, if they ask- explain the situation. Everyone knows that money can be tight and understand those things. SIL sounds kind of rude to not even give you guys a discount though!

    Post # 8
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    708 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    I would have her get her hair done by her SIL before she comes to the room where you are getting ready.

    Post # 10
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    9029 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    To be honest it shouldnt be an issue with the stylist but I do understand what you mean about it being not much space also being awkward. Honestly if I were in your shoes I would ask her to have her hair done outside the room. Or just do her own hair

    Post # 12
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    1046 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    It’s one less thing you have to pay for, isn’t that a good thing? I don’t see how anyone getting their hair done would be awkward, either. If it’s that big of a deal, can’t she get her hair done in another room? The suite has got more than one space where they can do hair, right?

    Post # 13
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    629 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Honestly, I wouldn’t worry about it…I don’t think it’s any more offensive than if she just said she was doing her own hair and then came to the suite and did her own hair in front of the stylist.  It’ll probably cause more drama if you tell her not to bring her.  It’s your wedding day, you have bigger fish to fry than who’s doing her hair.  Smile

    Post # 14
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    5978 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I’m confused – you aren’t forcing your stylist on her, but you’re telling her that she can’t bring her own. That sort of sounds like you’re forcing your stylist on her! I say let her bring her SIL to do her hair…it would be the same if she decided to go out to get her hair done and come back…

    Post # 15
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    1231 posts
    Bumble bee

    I dunno, I understand for space reasons why you wouldn’t want one more person in the room. But, she’s doing her SIL’s hair for free. I don’t think that would be an issue with the women that are being paid. If the girls aren’t having thier hair professionally done, are they supposed to come with their hair done before they get there? It’s not like she’s bringing her own stylist that she is paying for. That might make her a diva lol. But its her sister in law and shes doing it for free. *shrug* I guess I don’t see it being a big deal. Its not like shes taking business away from them because she is only doing her SIL’s hair and its for free and she wasn’t going to have them do it anyway.

    Post # 16
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    10367 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I don’t understand why someone having their own stylist is a big deal. She’s getting her hair done and not demanding everyone use that person. If anyhting, it’ll make the day go faster/more smoothly. One less thing for you to worry about.

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