(Closed) Bridesmaid Can't Come To Wedding :(

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
3732 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

*Hugs* I don’t have any good advice but I’m sorry she won’t be there! I know you must be really disappointed. I know it will be a great day anyway, and that she would be there if she could!

Post # 4
Hostess
7568 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

Ugh, I’m sorry. That’s really upsetting. I bet she told you via email because she was really upset too. I hope you’re able to talk soon to ease your mind. Plus, you guys could always Skype on your wedding day to hopefully make you feel better. 

Post # 5
Member
8 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2002

Sorry, I’m lost for words. I understand and feel your pain. It’ll work out in the end.

Post # 7
Member
8 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2002

I understand – I wish I could do something to get them here. Maybe, some of your friends can get together and watch the wedding via Skype – hey – God is good maybe she will surprise you and try to come.

Post # 8
Member
42 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2016

as we grow older,we will have lesser friends around us,that is quite normal.

They will bless us no matter where they are..Innocent

Post # 9
Member
953 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@MrsHRC:  I’m really sorry you’re going through this! I think she probably didn’t pick up the phone and call because she was too heartbroken. I know I probably would have just messaged so as not to burst into tears, especially right after finding out the news 🙁

Post # 11
Member
2029 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@MrsHRC:  That really sucks.  She might have JUST found out right then and wanted to tell you asap and wasnt able to skype or give you a phone call.  Dont be too hard on her.  Its her bosses fault that she cant go not hers. 

Post # 12
Member
842 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@MrsHRC:  Sorry to hear this. I had a similar situation with one of my bridesmaids (or at least the possibility) but she ended up being able to come to my wedding after all. I know how hurt I would have been if she couldn’t come, even though I knew it was out of her control, so I absolutely understand how you must be feeling.

Try not to let it get you down. You’ll still have an amazing wedding.  

Post # 13
Member
227 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

So sorry. Maybe since the month is the issue, you can invite her to come in September for a week or so and spend time with you and help with some wedding stuff? That way you get to see her (and possibly get more time than right around the wedding) and can have her involved somewhat with your wedding?

Post # 14
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11760 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’m sorry. We also had a bridal party member drop out and tell us via facebook the day before they thought they might have to see us in person.  I totally get you on the whole you could have at least called/told us in person thing!

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