Bridesmaid delima

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
8282 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

@Imhis1andonly:  I wouldn’t say you were wrong, but out of curiosity, why didn’t you choose your best friend?

In her defense, she probably figured it’d be her. 

Post # 4
7630 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

You say that she’s acting differently but have you been acting the same? I think a lot of brides (me included) start focusing on the wedding and thinking about it all the time. This can sometimes push friends away. Why don’t you suggest you two have a fun afternoon together with absolutely no wedding talk? 

Post # 6
851 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Ah…. the bridesmaid vs moh issue…….

I had a similar issue deciding who should be what in my wedding.  In the end I made the decision that worked best for me, my DH and my wedding…..

Over time one of my bridesmaids became more and more difficult to deal with and I was trying for the life of me to figure out why…

After the wedding I decided to ask her about her behavior…. turns out she was pissed at who was selected as MOH….

My opinion….. it is the bride and grooms day and they should have the right to choose their bridal party as they wish……..

i would try to have a wedding free day with this girl.  After that, if she does not seem to come around I would ask her what is up.  You really do not need this girl to become more difficult as the wedding nears…..

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