Bridesmaid Dilemma

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
42082 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Nay1976:  What are the “bridal party responsibilities” that you assume these women will have to handle?

I would limit the bridal party to the daughters and invite your friends as guests.

Post # 4
1634 posts
Bumble bee

@Nay1976:  Honestly I think thats a wonderful idea! You can all get ready together, they’d act just like bridesmaids, the only difference is the matching dresses and standing up with you. I think its a great way to honor your long-time important friendships without having a mosh pit at the alter 🙂

Post # 5
5087 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

I would honour your girlfriends by making them VIP’s & have your daughters as bridesmaids & have them stand with you. 

Post # 6
838 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@Nay1976:  Absolutely. I think you’ve got the right idea – they’re important to you, you want them to be involved in your wedding. I think you have a wonderful idea and as a PP mentioned, they could get ready with you and be seated towards the front at the ceremony, and they’d understand how much they mean to you. It’s your day – even if it’s your second time around – and you should get to have those that are important to you by your side. If you’d like to have a bachelorette party, go for it. You’ve got something wonderful to celebrate!

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