(Closed) Bridesmaid dilemma help

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Should we look for dresses again
    Yes : (1 votes)
    11 %
    No : (8 votes)
    89 %
    Go to the same dress store again and look some more : (0 votes)
    Go to David's : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    Member
    51 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Honestly, I don’t want you to let one bridesmaid change what everyone is wearing if she’s the only one that doesn’t want to do it…but maybe you can just go out and look at some other options.  It doesn’t necessarily have to be David’s.  If you don’t feel like dragging all the girls out, or if it’s hard to get everyone together, you can always look online yourself and see which stores you’d like to go to, or go out on your own and see if you find some you’d like to bring the bridesmaids to try on.  If those are your favorite dresses, though, then GO FOR IT.  Don’t let someone else dictate what you do on your big day.  She has a long time to save up.  🙂

    Post # 5
    Member
    9552 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Let her pick  another  dress if  she wants but don’t make the rest of the bridesmaids change if they don’t want to.

    Post # 6
    Member
    1081 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    Let the other girls keep the original dress (it’s gorgeous by the way!), and let your one friend find a similar dress she will feel comfortable in… you were already okay with her in a different (maternity) dress, so if she just doesn’t like THAT one, then she can find her own different dress! But I’d ask her to find one in the same material, and same designer (so that it will be the same color… different designers have diff colors!!)…

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