Bridesmaid Disappointment versus personal attendant

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
3753 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@james1973:  I am sorry you are disappointed in not being a BM for your friend. My only advice would be to see this as a blessing in disguise. I would take my position for what it is and embrace the fact that you do not have to do all the work. You can push it on the BMs and enjoy a little more. You say that many duties will fall to you – I say, DON’T LET THAT HAPPEN!

Unless you want to be a BM without the title, push back a little and just be a casual helper.

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