- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
I am begining to get stressed! Recently my maid of honor and one of my other bridesmaids got into a huge fight, over my bachlorette party! My MOH and I have been friends for 12 years and it was no surprise when I chose her to be my MOH atleast I didn’t think so. So she told me that she wanted to plan my bachlorette party herself. I understood considering I have 5 other bm’s so I knew it would be hard considering everyones opinion. Well long story short my MOH planned a great trip and then let all the other BM’s know what the plan was. Well one of them did not like the fact that she was not included in the planning process. Then my BM goes on to tell me that she has not been involved in ANY of the wedding planning process. (Mind you the only thing I have done really with anyone was my wedding gown which I found by accident really) Needless to say I got tons of crap for that one from my MOH. Anyway they ended up getting in a huge fight. Then my BM tells me that she thinks the whole MOH thing is stupid, then basically told me she was jealous bc she wasn’t the MOH! Gees! I’ve been engaged for almost a year and she knew I already picked an MOH, why is this backfiring in my face?? Well they smothed it over with each other (kinda) and I told my BM that I would try to include her in more things.
So we still need to get BM dresses. Im trying to include as many BM’s as I can, the biggest problem is our schedules are ridiculous! My MOH works m-f from 10-8. And I have to work every saturday and the bridal shops are closed sundays. So the best time for me is during the week. Well as soon as I said something my MOH freaked out bc she wasn’t going to be able to go! Now she’s telling ME that I have to rearrange MY schedule so she can go! Idk but it made me pretty mad. I think I have a bridemaidzilla on my hands! What do you guys think I should do???