(Closed) bridesmaid drama

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1458 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@sharky:  I’m sorry you’re dealing with this, it sounds so frustrating! I think in your situation it might be a good idea to talk to Y and say something like “I know you have so much going on in your life righit now and I don’t want to be a burden to you. I want you to enjoy my wedding and if you think you’d enjoy it more as a guest than I’ll understand and be happy to share our day with you that way”. Let her step down if that’s what she wants. I think she might not want to be in the bridal party if she’s not moh. 

Post # 4
285 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I agree with MsCarabiner totally.  It’s just too much stress to baby her.  And what she said sounds like a nice way to let her out of it. If she still insists she wants to be in it, then don’t get off the phone with her until an appointment is worked out and set in stone.  Just explain to her that this isn’t something that can wait, or be decided casually, so it’s important that she stick to her appointments. 

Good luck! Hopefully she will just bow out and you won’t have to worry about it anymore!!

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