(Closed) Bridesmaid drama :(

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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165 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

sounds stressful!

i would remind each of them that you are the bride, and although you may be “their common link”, they must communicate with one another and not only through you. having all contact or conflict go through you is only asking for trouble, or being forced to take sides. you have enough on your plate right now.

 

Post # 4
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44 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2010

they are being really childish..they need to be reminded that they are adults! they should just suck it up for you! ive had some BM drama like that on a lesser scale but really you should just go to your MOH for things and try as much as possible to keep them apart, then on the day of their not liking each other should not interfere with their duties of supporting u. good luck!

Post # 5
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79 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I’m sorry. I’m going through something similar. With everything that’s been going on one of my MOH’s definitely does not like the other… & they’ve known each other through me & have hung out for at least 5 years. Maybe having a chat with the two of them (maybe more like one from the sound of it) would be in your best interest. Letting them know how important it is for you that they both be there & that you don’t feel the added stress of one of them trying to kill the other. I think out of respect for you she should try to suck it up… both if anything. Afterall they are there for YOU.

I hope that helps! Good luck!

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