- 7 years ago
- Wedding: March 2012
Hey all, so I am new to the hive…new to posting anyway ;). But I am having a dilemma and I need people to tell me if I am being irrational. So, I have 7 bridesmaids, and I chose two dresses for them to choose from. I initially thought of all different tops, but the “I call halter!” etc started and I was already overwhelmed. Here are the 2 dresses I chose from J.Crew:
Anyway, I am afraid that they are all choosing the strapless and I would rather have all v-neck than strapless. (All are size 2-6 so either choice looks good on all…I tried both of them on and I am a size 8) What’s worse is that they won’t commit. I told them to order them in the beginning of June and some are “making appointments” at the J.Crew bridal store in chicago to try them on (none live in chicago), even though I explained over and over that there are only sample sizes there and it will not fit them regardless. If I am being irrational, please let me know, I have a big exam coming up so I am stressing about multiple things. I am trying to make it easy on them because all they have to do is call and order a size or even two sizes and return one free shipping and everything. What is a nice way to say I want there to be enough of both types without taking away their freedom of choice?