(Closed) Bridesmaid dresses

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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2208 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Are you friends with your BM’s friend? Very odd thing to do. Probably your BM’s who are being asked are even more annoyed. I mean, I guess maybe not technically wrong, but I understand feeling annoyed. Its just a very weird thing to do. Maybe it is so annoying because they were gifts, meant to be worn on your special day then on occasions afterwards, when they would still have that special conotation. Maybe it feels so weird because now they will be associated with someone else’s wedding?

I’m a little flabergasted, actually, it is so weird. I totaly understand the need to save money right now, but there are so many easy alternatives without being so … weird!

Post # 5
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473 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I’d personally be really upset. That is incosiderate and completely rude. I say, if they are going to do that then someone needs to pay you back for those dresses.  You bought them to be used for YOUR wedding – not some other girls. 

Post # 6
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1896 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009 - St. Thomas of Villanova Church & the F.U.E.L. House

It sounds like she really should be asking you, not the other bridesmaid!  If she did this, would you be inclined to say yes?  Maybe suggest selling them to her at a discount?  Just an idea!

Post # 7
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1276 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I don’t know, I personally think it’s pretty weird and I get where you’re coming from.  But my MOH had suggested that she wished she hadn’t donated it b/c she would suggest I use the dress she wore (b/c it matched my colors) in another wedding of someone I barely know.  And she even said that the other bride thought I should try to borrow everyone else’s dress rather than have my BP buy new ones.  It was kind of a non-issue b/c my MOH didn’t even have the dress to show me (and it was way more expensive than I’d make my other BP members buy), but even though I thought it sounded really strange apparently neither she nor her friend thought it was.  I jsut thought I’d put this out  tehre as another viewpoint…even though I’m with you on feeling I’d be annoyed and uncomfortable as well.

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