bridesmaid dropped out again but I want to keep her involved.

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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384 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@00rubyred: If you don’t have a personal attendant already, that might be a good job for her.  She can help you with your dress, gettting ready, hold your flowers during photos where they aren’t needed etc. You could still name her in the program and thank her for her help, even if she isn’t a bridesmaid.  Otherwise, making her the go-to woman for vendor questions, directions or other questions on your day instead of you and your FI is a good idea too!

Post # 4
Member
333 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@00rubyred:  Let her help you get ready with the other girls. There shouldnt be that many people with you so she shouldn’t be too overwhelmed. Invite her to breakfast with you that morning.

Post # 5
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12262 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

@00rubyred:  I agree with personal assistant (though be careful of personal slave, not that you would ever do that)

Have her with you to help you get ready and sit with you when you get your hair/make up done!

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