(Closed) Bridesmaid – FSIL or…(H)S?

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Who should be my bridesmaid?
    FSIL : (9 votes)
    60 %
    Sister : (0 votes)
    Friend : (1 votes)
    7 %
    Just do all three sisters! :-/ : (5 votes)
    33 %
  • Post # 3
    585 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    If you feel like your sister would be left out, can she do a reading or something? Based on your post it sounds like that might be a better suited role for her anyway.

    Post # 5
    61 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: February 2015

    @2BeeMrsE:  I think there is no question that your Future Sister-In-Law should be your bridesmaid! She sounds great and supportive and like she will help you have a good time! I have been in way to many weddings where bridesmaids haven’t been able to help because they live too far away or they just haven’t had an interest, which it sounds like your sis doesn’t! As for the old BFF thing, I totally went through that when picking my attendants, you want someone reliable that has proven their reliability. It sounds to me as if this friend is a little flaky in your relationship. Maybe just let them know that Fiance wants to keep the numbers even and ask sis and friend to be “honorary bridesmaids” They help and are important, they just don’t stand up with you. 🙂

    Post # 6
    128 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    I think you should choose.your Future Sister-In-Law. She seems to be the most supportive. I know that I would want a bridesmaid that was willing to help. Also, if your sister hasn’t really even congratulated you yet, maybe she won’t even mind being in the wedding.

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