- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
So my wedding is in august about 2 months away and one of my bridesmaids is being so flaky. I’m not very sure what’s going on with her but I’ve texted her multiple times on her cell and tried calling her a few times and she never answers me. She has cancelled on me twice in the past 2 weeks when I ask to meet up with her to see what’s going on. I only know what I see on facebook and what I’m seeing is that she is going through a nasty seperation with her baby-daddy. I’m just confused as to my she wouldn’t tell me. I texted her 3 weeks ago asking her to please pick out a dress… no answer. I text her the next day asking her if she’s alright…. no answer. Then she texts ME and asks me when we’re going to get the dress, I tell her monday… monday comes… no answer. She then texts me and says she’s sorry that she’ll see me thursday…. I call…. no answer. She then messaged me on fb and tells me that she’s living in another town about 30 mins away and that she’ll call me the next day…. no call. I made her promise to call me and she still didn’t call!!! I am beyond pissed off by this girl and shes been doing this for like a montha and a half now!! I find out through a fb post a nasty comment from her baby-daddy’s sister that they are seperated. Why isn’t she saying anything, we’re supposed to be friends!! I just can’t stand it anymore, she was the most enthusiastic one out of all of my bms and now she’s just dropped off the face of the earth. She messaged me on fb and asked me to hang out this weekend or the next…. honestly I’m so mad at her that I’m just ignoring her. It’s 2 months before the wedding and she hasn’t even gotten her dress… she also offered to host my bridal shower and she seemed really excited about it kept sending me cute idea and now it doesn’t seem like thats going to happen. I’m sooooo mad at her. I understand that she is going through something but she could atleast be decent enough to let me know and drop out so that I don’t have to worry about her and on top of that worry about my wedding. Please, I need some advice on this one. I can’t stand having such a flaky person in my wedding.