Bridesmaid has other priorities!!

posted 2 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Should I boot her out of the wedding party?
    Yes : (7 votes)
    6 %
    No : (105 votes)
    94 %
  • Post # 2
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    1262 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: February 2015 - Mount Hermon

    Kwhite20:  she’s a bridesmaid, not a slave. She’s allowed to have her own life. So she won’t be in the picture with her face painted. 

    Let me put it this way: kicking her out will probably end your friendship with her. Are you mad enough to do that? Then go ahead. 

    Post # 3
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    804 posts
    Busy bee

    Kwhite20:  You are way over-reacting. Aside from the fact you’re not supposed to plan your own shower, obviously people have their own lives and other things are more important to them than your wedding and its related events. She’s not your slave or employee – she’s not contractually obliged to do your bidding. Booting her out will ruin your relationship so think carefully before you do something like that over something as trivial as her arriving an hour late.

    Post # 4
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    450 posts
    Helper bee

    There’s a programme here on TV called ‘Bridezilla’ we thought it was made up – clearly not!

    Post # 5
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    2052 posts
    Buzzing bee

    She agreed to stand with you at the altar, not drop her life to be at your beck and call. It’s a bridal shower, not the wedding. Be happy she is showing up at all, because she’s not obligated to do any of that

    Post # 6
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    7243 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    Kwhite20:  hahaha you’re funny. Nice try.

    Post # 7
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    156 posts
    Blushing bee

    So she can’t show up till one hour late big deal. Suck it up and move on. Maybe she just doesn’t want to get her face painted I know I wouldnt

    Post # 8
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    465 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    For someone who is old enough to have a stepdaughter, you sound a little immature. Your bridesmaid is not obligated to show up right on time. It sucks that she won’t be there for face painting I guess, but try to enjoy the experience with your other seven bridesmaids.

    Post # 9
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    5207 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    Kwhite20:  If she doesn’t show up to this one imagine what will happen if she doesn’t show up for face painting (and balloon animals?) at your wedding! She’s a prop after all. Duh, that’s what friends are for… isn’t it? Isn’t it?

    Post # 10
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    5207 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    Kwhite20:  Oh and by the way Dia de Los Muertos is a sacred day of rememberence for deceased family members. Nice way to exploit mourning Mexicans!

    Post # 11
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    2505 posts
    Sugar bee

    This is not your wedding day.  You have seven other people to play with! She has had the good manners to tell you that she will be significantly late.  Get over yourself.

    Post # 12
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    1753 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Seriously? You’re WAY overreacting. So she’s an hour late.. she can paint her own face when she arrives or something.. just work it out. Your wedding day is not going to be anyone’s priority.. her life is her priority and that’s how it should be.

    Post # 13
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    1279 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: February 2015 - Chapel on Base

    I love Glamis.  Plan on her not being there.  🙁

    Post # 14
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    182 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    It looks like you two are not very close…. It isn’t good to be carried away with this bridesmaids thing. Ask people who are close to you, who help you with your life to be that close to you during your wedding preparations and on the day.

    Post # 15
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    1111 posts
    Bumble bee

    It’s going to take more than an hour for one face painter to do you plus the other 7 girls so it shouldn’t matter if this girl is an hour late as the face painter should still be there.

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