- 7 years ago
Okay Bees I need your help
My wedding is in two weeks as you can see, but here it goes.
Abpout last November when we started asking people to be in the wedding party, FI tkedofs best friend to be a groomsmen around the time of thanksgiving, and he was so happy and said yes and everything was good.
Now fast forward its March and FI and his friend are hanging out and he mentions something about his wife being a bridesmaid, now Ive known these peoplefor 5 years, but his wife and I arent friendly, like we get along, but we only talk to each other when with FI and her husband. He goes, well my wife wants to know when she can get her dress, and my FI was like what, and it turns out in their culture if you invite one to be in the wedding, you invite the other, and he told FI he wouldnt be in the wedding if she wasnt a bridesmaid. I didnt even say much and at all and i asked her to be a bridesmasd and I am happy she wants to be a part of my big day.
She was so excited, first to buy a dress was so helpful, then it stopped.
She wouldnt go to my engagement party, and she refused to go to my shower, her husband called me and said he was so sorry, but she doesnt know anyone and shes not coming, which is fine, but please just explain it to me before and not when I am out the door going to pick her up to come with me. then she came over later, didnt say a word and asked if her dress was in.
Now I see her for the first time since then tonight, and she tells me she decided on what shoes she was wearing, and that her dress is to big and she hasnt even taken it to the tailor.
Im not sure about her, I feel like she might not show up to the wedding.
Sorry venting, I need some advice, thanks!