(Closed) Bridesmaid invited boyfriend!!

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2725 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

You’re not responsible for his entertainment. She can figure it out since she’s bringing him. You do not need to stress over this!

Post # 4
4887 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I also don’t think that you should be expected to host both of them.  They really should get a hotel!

Post # 5
2543 posts
Sugar bee

It’s incredibly uncool that she didn’t check with you before inviting him considering he will be staying with you also. If it were me I would explain that you don’t want people staying with you so close to the wedding, because you have a child/smaller place, etc. – maybe they can get a hotel? If not, as PP said, it’s not up to you to entertain him. He can figure out what to do with himself! People are so rude when it comes to weddings, you should not have to put up with this!!

Post # 6
2254 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

This is a bit much for your friend to expect of you, especially considering you have a small child. I’m sure you wouldn’t random people under the same roof as your child. Just tell her no.

Post # 8
1920 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

She definitely shoud have checked with you before inviting him. But, you could either tell her you would rather her stay in a hotel if she is bringing a guest. Or just have an extra person stay at your house. You don’t need to entertain him. So I wouldn’t stress about that.

Post # 9
4275 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Tell them to get a hotel room, but tell her why. If she is a true friend, she will understand.

This exact thing happened to me. One of my bridesmaids wanted her boyfriend (whom I never met) to sleep over at my house the night before we were to set off for the bachelorette party in the morning. I said, “Get a hotel room, this is no sausage fest, it is girl time plus I have never met him!”

She understood and did not make a big deal of it.

Post # 10
438 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@Megan2035:  When she told you she was bringing this guy did she make any reference on still planning to stay with you? Maybe she is planning a hotel and didn’t think to mention it since she thought it was a given. Hopefully she knows better..

Post # 11
2324 posts
Buzzing bee

Maybe touch base with her & say that all is ok for her to stay with you for the 2 x nights as discussed , but you are unable to host both of them & quickly proceed to mention a couple of local hotels …

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