Post # 1
So we’ve had a couple of meetings to plan my bridal shower. And this one girl, has not only missed both meetings, but she has not called, texted or emailed to let us know why she didn’t show up.
I know she is not busy because she updates her facebook status every thirty minutes, and sends me all sorts of forwards. I have emailed and called her repeatedly with no response.
I am wondering if I should just hope that she shows up on the wedding day, or if I should ask her if she wants out? Any advice?
Post # 3
I wish I had an answer to your question, I am struggling with the same thing. I have one that tells me that she wants to help, but then when I call her up just to talk she never answers or returns my calls. The fact that she updates facebook constantly yet ignores me kind of bothers me.
Post # 4
I would ask her. My cousin doesn’t seem that “into” being a bm either. But oh well.
Post # 5
Can another one of the bridesmaids check in with her? Maybe she has some reservations about being in the wedding, but she might be more comfortable talking to someone other than you about it.
Post # 6
I agree, try and talk to her because it doesn’t sound like she is at all willing to be involved. Geeze I thought I was the only one with BM issues 🙁
Post # 7
i’m sorry you have to deal with this when you should be enjoying the process. what i learn from my own situations is NOT to expect too much from the bridesmaids, that way, you won’t feel disappointed.
Post # 8
I would be up front with her and ask if she still has time/wants to be apart of the wedding and go from there. Be nice about it though, don’t say that if she isn’t interested in planning then she can’t be a part of the bridal party – the fact is no one will be as excited as you about your wedding and not everyone likes planning. But I would definitely find a way to talk to her about it.