Bridesmaid, MOH, MOM. drama

posted 2 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
1214 posts
Bumble bee

As a MOB, I would never do anything that I thought would upset anyone in the wedding party.  I also did not have any say in the planning of the shower or bachelorette party.  If this somehow happened to my daughter, I think she would ask me to let it go and try to make amends with her friends.  She would probably tell each bmaid separately that it was just a misunderstanding and please try to get past it.  She loves us all and only wants us all to feel good.  Feelings are certainly sensitive right now for all parties but they should also do whats best for you.  I hope it gets worked out.  Me personally, I would do whatever it takes to get things back on track for my daughter.


Post # 3
1298 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Sounds like everyone still feels pretty heated about what happened. I would let everyone try and calm down for a few days, then try to speak with each individually to get more details about what actually happened. 

Post # 4
42089 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I don’t think there is anything to be gained by your getting involved. Just let them have some time to settle down and hopefully they will all be able to be civil to one another at the wedding.

Post # 5
7025 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Myst13:  You need to (a) talk to each of them (individually) and get a better idea of what happened. And (b) tell them all to grow up and leave their differences aside on your wedding day.

My parents are divorced. Major, major hurt feelings due years of betrayal and then a divorce. And yet they’ve both been perfectly behaved at each of their children’s weddings. And this story is repeated at thousands of weddings. If divorced parents can behave, then so can people who’ve had a little tiff over a party.

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