- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
This might be kinda long but sorry i just have to vent and see what others think 🙁
One of my BMs has been a close friend the last couple years. I asked her without a doubt to be one of my BMs. Since then, we are not that close anymore…we’ve tried to get together but she is a much different person now- and I can’t really stand her to be honest! We’ve had a really laid back friendship…now she is just super loud and obnoxious..she hangs around a bad crowd and admitted she sometimes does drugs with them but only once a month (?)…she goes out and partys a lot…which is fine, I go out too with my friends…but with her it’s very sloppy and a disaster!
I couldn’t make her birthday party a couple weeks ago (it was my moms the same night) and she screamed at me and wouldnt talk to me for 2 weeks, even though i I offered to hang with her any other time. She apologized a couple days ago so I was hoping things would be fine.
So this morning, it was her idea to go with me to a bridal shop to look at BM’s dresses. I picked her up in the morning-and she was still drunk! It was honestly a nightmare she was so loud, drunk and being stupid.
I didn’t know what to do b/c I was surprised she was actually still drunk and would stay up all night when she knew we were going in the morning (her idea mind you), so I just didn’t say much b/c I figured there was no reasoning that would happen in that state.
I’m definitly upset and bummed about the last few months with her, I’ve tried to tell her that she should rest and take it easy, but she’s out of control! She’s changed into this out of control maniac and my true feeling is I can’t stand her! I wish she would just be the old person. She’s honestly become someone I don’t even want to be friends with (Im really again drugs).
Has anyone ever dealt with this? Or could give me any advice?