(Closed) Bridesmaid Pressure

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

So you would have 7 if you asked both? Personally I think that’s too many, but lots of people have even more. Can you just leave it at 5? Have neither and avoid any drama? I love my college roomies, but am closer with 3 other friends (and my sister and FSIL) so I just didn’t ask them but of course they will be at the wedding and have a great time anyway! 

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Personally, I would ask her since you are all good friends and if they would be drama free and fun, then why not?? Also if you were in hers then you musta be pretty close! But in the end its your choice!

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@RunnerBride13:  I think she currently has 3 and adding these 2 would make it 5….

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

People take this stuff really personally. If you were in her wedding and don’t ask her to be in yours, you’re likely to lose the friendship. Right or worng, that’s just how it goes. So something to consider. 

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