(Closed) Bridesmaid question

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I think this is a situation where being direct and honest is fine.  🙂  I think if you let her know that you don’t feel comfortable going due to the driving concern, she’ll understand it has nothing to do with her.  

Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper

is there no one else you can get a ride with?

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

try and ask someone

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I think since you are a bridesmaid, you need to make some extra effort to be at her shower. If you can’t find someone to ride with, try to find a friend that will make the trip with you and maybe go shopping or something. I think its important for you to try to make it!

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Could you meet someone half way, maybe the day before and spend the night?  Could you take a bus? 

It would probably mean a lot to her for you to be there. 

Post # 9
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Honey bee

I agree. Can you ask your fiance to ride with you and maybe take himself out to a sports bar to watch some TV during that time?

A train? or a bus?

Your mom or even someone who knows you and your problems with driving distances that would be willing to help you?

I had a bridesmaid like you and she had her boyfriend driver her everywhere. She was at everything. I understood when she had to come late or leave early because her bf had to leave, but she at least came to everything.

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