(Closed) Bridesmaid regrets!!!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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232 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Might be – that’s why I think it’s a bit silly to ask so far out in advance.  Just try to make the best of it and see if she changes as you get closer to the date.

Post # 4
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406 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I wish there would be an “after the fact” thread where you ladies could post what you learned about bridesmaids… number of… dealing with… etc.  I sometimes feel that people think early on, the more the merrier, and end up with a lot of drama because of problems they didn’t anticipate.

Post # 5
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191 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’m in a similar situation where I didn’t know anything about weddings so I was so wrapped up in everything that I didn’t stop to think about everything before I made my decision. I picked my sisters and my bff like you, but now I’m also stuck with my two other friends who have started drifting and I feel like we probably won’t even be friends by the time the wedding rolls around. I don’t really have much advice because I’m just as confused as to what to do as you are, but I feel like if the wedding is two months away then it might be best in your situation to just leave things the way they are. It would cause too much drama to kick her out and it would make things awkward in the future because obviously you guys will still end up seeing each other. As for your other friend, rather than adding her as a last minute BM, could you have her do something else thats important for the wedding, like a reading or something? I hope everything works out for you!

Post # 6
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837 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

You can’t kick her out.  Other than not returning your calls, I didn’t read anything in the post that would be considered bad and warrant that… She bought the dress and arranged for make up and shoes… what else is there that she’s required to do?

I also wouldn’t ask someone a month before the wedding to be a BM….  She’ll know it was a last minute pity invite.

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