Post # 1
So my bridal shower is next weekend and my bridesmaids haven’t been very active in planning anything for it. My mom has actually been planning all of it. Do I still get all of them gifts?
My bachelorette is later that night and my MOH is planning all of it. I plan on giving her an extra special gift in her wedding present but should I give her something at the bachelorette too?
I’m just not sure of the etiquette of all of this!!
Post # 3
I’m giving my BMs a gift the night of the rehearsal dinner (jewelry). For the shower and bachelorette, I am going to just send a nice thank you card afterwards. I hope that’s not too little! I am seriously financially strapped right now 😛
Post # 4
My bridesmaids didn’t plan my shower, either. (Mom did). Actually, they didn’t even attend. So no, I didn’t get them any extra gift for that haha!!
I got my MOH something extra for planning my bachelorette party, though. Gave all the bridesmaids their gifts the day of the wedding, only because 1 flew in from a different state the previous night, and I wanted to give all the girls their gifts at the same time. I think brides usually give their gifts at the rehearsal?
Post # 5
I never heard of giving BMs gifts at the shower! My BMs helped my mom plan a bit and helped out a lot the day of the shower. I’m going to give them their gifts at the rehearsal dinner.
Post # 6
My mom paid for the food at my shower and my sisters (MOHs) planned most of it. I’m sure the other girls helped too though, and a lot of them are out of towners so its harder to help. I just got them something little to let them know how much I love and appreciate them!
I wrote them each a personalized thank you note for helping plan/host my shower. I also got them all a purple nailpolish (some essie and some OPI – couldn’t find 7 of the same nail polish at any store so I bought 3 of one and 4 of another and the color was almost identical between brands) since our wedding color is purple. I also got them all a small box of chocolates from a local chocolate shop and a small starbucks card ($10 for BMs and $15 for MOHs). They all seemed to really like their gifts and I don’t think they were expecting anything which made it even more fun to give them something. A bunch of them have said they will wear the purple nail polish on their toes for the wedding. Although I’ve told them it wasn’t my intention – i just wanted to get them something cute – I’m super excited about them all getting into the color scheme!