Bridesmaid still doesn't have her dress

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
1441 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

She sounds like a peach.  Honestly, you should just let it go.  If she finds a dress and shows up on the day in the dress, she’s a bridesmaid.  If she doesn’t, she’s not.  End of story.

Post # 3
43300 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Sfcali:  If she finds a dress, she is in the wedding party. If she doesn’t, she isn’t.

Spend your time and energy on things you actually can control.

Post # 4
941 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Curious – is it a matter of her not finding something she likes or just not even bothering to look? Are the colors (and “restrictions”) making things difficult? Or is she just being lazy? Either way, I agree with PP, if she gets one great. If not, she’s a guest. 

Post # 5
139 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Sfcali:  Don’t stress about it!!!! She won’t show up naked, so she will have some sort of dress on. As long as your restrictions aren’t crazy or insanely hard, she will be able to find something. If she doesn’t come with a dress in those 3 colors under those restrictions, oh well, she’s not a BM. That was her decision. At least she said she’s looking. 

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