(Closed) Bridesmaid taking advantage of FI's niceness

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
755 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@BeeandBeeBride27:  ugh I hate when people try to take advantage!! Really, your FI needs to be the one to say something.  Have you talked to him about how you feel? He might not realize that you’re feeling a bit pushed aside during these weekends.  I know it’s been a while since you posted, how did things turn out?

Post # 4
Member
307 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Just keep saying you are busy. If she tries to come over on a weeknight tell her it’s date night. I think if she doesn’t get the message she is clueless, and telling her you feel like your FI is doing all the work for her is only the truth. Good luck!

Post # 5
Member
7463 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Any updates? You need to tell her staight out, damn being polite when she has no problem taking advantage. Shes not doing thee work and taking up your private time. NO!  Frankly most schools have tutoring avaiable. So its not like she doesn’t have options. She’s treating you both like suckers. And get your FI on board.

 

 

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