- 7 years ago
- Wedding: March 2010
Thank all of you who helped me out with the email I was going to send my bridesmaid the other day–the one that told her I thought it would be better if she stepped down because of financial reasons. I’m so glad I didn’t include the emotional reasons why I didn’t want her in the wedding because she emailed me back last night and said she’s so relieved I asked her to step down because she said that her and her husband are really close to getting back on their feet. I’m so happy that she’s not offended by my proposition because I would hate to have started all that drama for nothing!
Though, here is why I think I’m a horrible bride–ever since things have gone sour with this other bridesmaid I’ve been really regretting not having my good friend from high school stand up. I know she would be a good bridesmaid but I just couldn’t do it. I’m just still talking myself into the idea that this wouldn’t work because it’s getting too close to the wedding to expect her to foot the money. Oh well, you live and you learn.