- 5 years ago
- Wedding: January 2014
Okay so I did the stupid thing when i got engaged. I asked 5 girls all within a week after the engagement to be in my wedding party!!! One is no longer part of it because of separation (ex sister in law) and another is a huge regret I have. I originally asked her cuz I was in her party when she got married (Mistake two) which I should have considered more of who she is before going with that one. She has shown interest in the wedding, but the last time we talked was over 6 months ago!! We are not close to each other like we use to and I have already gotten the talk and demands on how the dress should look from her. She has always been a selfish individual, plus is a major drama queen. Also she is a very two faced person who will smile at you then tell you off to someone else. These points were blinded by the newly engaged moment and must share happiness with whoever will listen. I find having her in the party will be a negative thing and she will cause 10X more stress. I am regretting my choice and need to figure out a way to tell her it will not work.