- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
Hi guys, I am a regular poster, but would not like this story to be associated with me, it’s just, well, unpleasant. My story is a bit long, but pls bare with me. One of my bridesmaids, a friend I have had for little over a year is acting very strange and well, a bit bitchy. She is the wife of one of my ‘husband to be’s’ friends/aka groomsman. I really wanted to include her in the wedding as our friendship was blossoming, until….it started to fall apart. One day I was not feeling well or talking much at a social gathering.
The following day she emails me telling me that she feels that as friends we should have chatted more and she now feels weird about our friendship, on which I reply that I am sorry, I was just having a bad day. And bee’s ‘ever since that day she has been acting really weird towards me, she is stand offish, does not answer my emails, nothing. I am trying my very best to be friendly and let the friendship recover, but it is really getting to me. She is making a huge issue out of something extremely trivial. Now, normally I would let this run its course and see where it goes, but I think I am trying extra hard to repair because in all honesty, she is making this wonderful time in my life a bit unpleasant. Now, I know, a bride has one day and everyone’s lives do not revolve around my wedding, but she has excuses every time I try to get the girls together.
I am just in disbelieve that someone can hold a grudge this big over nothing. Her wedding was in March and even though I was not included in the bridal party, I offered support, helped where I could- it seems like the moment her wedding was over, she wrote me off. What am I to do? Do I confront her or do I just let her be? I really want fun with my bridesmaids, my other 2 girls are absolutely great and so ecxited!!!! Please help me, what do I do???