(Closed) Bridesmaid/Maid of Honor Advice Needed. (Long explanation)

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
459 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Honestly, ask the friend you want to be your Maid/Matron of Honor. Explain to your current Maid/Matron of Honor that she kinda declared herself that without really thinking about what she’s supposed to do with that title. She cannot act like your Maid/Matron of Honor so she cannot be your Maid/Matron of Honor. Make sense? It’ll probably hurt her feelings, but hopefully she’ll understand. Remember it’s YOUR day. YOU and your Fiance should be happy, when you look back you want to remember the right people playing the right roles in your wedding. It may cause a bit of a stir right now, but you’ll be glad you did in the end. Hope this helps. :/ Good luck! 

Post # 4
1775 posts
Buzzing bee

citing that a friend of hers just got divorced so all wedding talk just depresses her.”

People can feel however they want, but the way I’d look at it is “One of my friends is getting married, so weddings make me happy!” Y’know, since she’s your MOH(????) and all.

I say just go with co-MOHs and let her do as little or as much as she wants, and explain the situation to the more reliable girl.

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