- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
I feel like there’s a lot of tension between me and one of my bridesmaids- everything was fine unitl I had them get their dresses. After that, I keep feeling that no matter what I do I feel that her first reaction is hostile. She seemed excited to be a bridesmaid in the beginning and basically. The only thing I really asked of her is to do is to buy the dress, which was 175. I honeslty feel that my wedding is actually pulling us apart when I thought it would be something special and fun.
I dont want to end the friendship and I know we have to talk. she already inadvertinely treatened me with once about pulling out as a bridesmaid. I’m not a bridezilla but I want to add an extra bridesmaid to my bridal party so that we’re covered. I have every intention of working everything out with her but I feel like there’s an extra stress because of the bridal party. Plus I dont know how to ask another bridesmaid so far after everyone else, I dontwant another hostile situation. My wedding is less than 3 months away
How do I handle this?