- 6 years ago
- Wedding: July 2012
There’s a lot of things I’d do differently now if I could do them all over again. I’m sure we can all say that. I got engaged about 11 months ago, and have been so stressed out over a couple of my bridesmaids, all who happen to be family in one way or another. The ones that are friends are so great… wouldn’t be able to do this with out them. But the family members have been awful! Any form of communication with them is stressful and intense. If I had a do-over, I would not involve them. If I didn’t ask them, I know there would be major issues, and if I un-asked them now I know there would be even bigger issues. I don’t know what to do. My bridesmaids should like me, right? It seems like all they do is gossip amongst themselves and be beyotches. Just thinking about my bacchelorette party is giving me anxiety, having these girls in the same place at the same time.
more specifically, communication is rough. sending emails and texts and not getting responses, making everything about them, stuffing bitterness and not talking about it. I can’t get more specific here unfortunately. Wish I could.
Since i feel that shortening our bridal party would possibly start WWIII, what can I do to survive the next few months, make it fun for everyone, and not contribute to the already broken situation that this is?