Bridesmaids making me sad. Not sure what to do.

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

Littlemissweddingbliss:  I’m sorry you’re having to deal with this b.s.  It sounds like they’re all just disregarding your wishes n have no appreciation for your numerous attempts to satisfy them. This is your special day, not theirs!   Just reading this makes me rejoice in my decision to not have a bridal party.  I have a MOH n Best man. Oh, and four (4) kids under the age of 5 for f.girls and r.bearers. Drama free!

Post # 3
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7410 posts
Busy Beekeeper

Littlemissweddingbliss:  It sounds like BM 1 has body image issues and might need a little help rather than judgement.

For the pregnant BM’s can you not exchange the dresses for the bigger sizes and ask them to try them on. They may be under the assumption that they have to wear maternity clothes to be comfortable. Give it a shot and if at the end of the day they are still uncomfortable I would allow them to purchase maternity BM dresses.

Post # 3
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163 posts
Blushing bee

Littlemissweddingbliss:  when is your wedding? if its not that far away then surely they wont be showing to much by that point anyway so an empire line would be very flattering.

This same thing happend to my friend – 2 of her bridesmaids were pregnant and we had fitted chiffon gowns – both wore them with no issues as it was what the bride wanted and both looked stunning with there little bumps on show (approx 5 and 6 months at the time)

I think you need to speak to your girls and tell them exactly what youve just wrote here and how much effort your mum put in and explain how you feel i think they will probably agree and stick to the dresses they have. good luck try not to stress!

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