- 3 years ago
I’ve posted before about my parents disowning me, struggling to find an officiant, and stressing about finding the right wedding gown. But throughout all of the typical wedding planning/bride drama I’ve been busting ass in med school and having panick attacks over my first medical licensing exam that I am I scheduled to take just one week before the wedding. So I hope someone can appreciate how stressful life is right now.
Before I got engaged I knew my sister and best friend would be my MOH and bridesmaid, respectively speaking. And that is exactly what happened. At first they were responsive to text messages with pictures of gowns I tried on or wedding color selection. My wedding is less than four months away (the month of May I will be useless so I am trying to be ontop of everything).
Lately they haven’t been responding to text messages, eventhough I answer every call and always support them. No one calls back when I am having a bad day or when my dad tells me he isn’t coming to my wedding. They haven’t picked out their dresses yet.
The most resent thing that happened was that my bridesmaid and I were skyping. She showed me a necklace that she was wearing from one of her friends. She said it was a gift for being a bridesmaid. Before I can ask her when this wedding was, she went on about all the colors of the wedding, flowers, and dresses and such. When I asked she told me that this friend was getting married in January. I felt better, but I am still upset.
I regret picking them as bridesmaids because my wedding will be the first wedding they are a part of, they both live in a different state then I do, and neither of them are married. I just feel hurt, because I won’t be having a bridal shower.
Hopefully they will come through for me, but as of now I just feel alone.