Bridesmaids Regret (Long)

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@NadiaN:  Oh no!! 🙁 Hugs to you.  I’m so sorry you’re feeling alone – I hope they pull through for you!

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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I’m so sorry to hear you’re feeling bummed 🙁  Could it be that all of the other stress that is going on in your life is coloring how you feel about your bridesmaid situation? It sounds like your friend has been in your life for awhile and that you are close to your sister, so I don’t know if saying you regret choosing them for bridesmaids is totally accurate. I agree that not responding to your calls/texts when you’re in distress is kind of crappy, but everyone gets busy and maybe they have their reasons. I do understand the feeling alone, though. My mom and my one bridesmaid live out of town and my other bridesmaid hasn’t helped a lot (although I know that is partially my fault for not ASKING for help as I always try to do things myself). When you have so much to do and feeling overwhelmed it can be an isolating feeling. Just remember that they haven’t been in your shoes, like you said, so they don’t necessarily ‘get it’. 

  • This reply was modified 2 years, 7 months ago by  Chani.
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