(Closed) Bridesmaids..no hurt feelings wanted.

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
17 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2013

You have to stop somewhere. I have 3 bridesmaids but in reality, if I were to have all the gals I love in my wedding party, I would have 15 bridesmaids!! For myself, to avoid the hurt feelings, I chose my two sisters and my best friend whom i’ve been friends with since the third grade. One of my other closest friends, who I was a MOH for her wedding, was very understanding and still offered to help me with whatever I needed throughout the wedding. She said she would have loved to be a bridesmaid but she understood and is just excited for the day to come. 

In the end though, if they truely care about you they will understand your decision.

Post # 5
Member
5246 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

I would definetly have over 10 if I chose all my friends but I know this is not realistic. You have to decide what is good for you and I’m sure your cousin will understand and you will still include her in the other things for your wedding like attending your shower and bachelorette party

Post # 6
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3697 posts
Sugar bee

You could think about asking her to do a reading or give her some other role?

Post # 7
Member
26 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2013

personal attendant?

 

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