(Closed) Bridesmaidzilla vs Bridal Party

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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4529 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@sera25:  I’d be pretty hurt if I found out the bride was talking about my financial standing to the other bridesmaids. A) it’s her money and not anyone elses business and B) I’m assuming this “BMZ” told her that information in confidence, not to be shared with you or anyone else.

My advice to you? Stop pestering this girl, talking about this girl, or even thinking about this girl. Don’t participate in gossiping about her with the bride, or critiquing her life. She could be a total hotmess and a trainwreck, but she can probably sense all of y’alls feelings towards her and they reinforce her desire not to participate.

Again, let her participate as she sees fit and stop trying to make her do stuff she obviously doesnt want to do. Her behavior may be crappy, but at the end of the day, the bride is making a conscious choice to keep her as a bridesmaid.

Post # 5
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4529 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@sera25:  It doesnt sound like it, and its not a job I’d want to have or be caught in the middle of :-/ It sucks, but I’d put this girl back in the brides court: if the bride is this unhappy, SHE needs to handle her, not someone who barely knows her.

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