- 4 years ago
A few months ago, one of the bridesmaids was being difficult with the planning of my BFF’s bachelorette party: http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/bachelorette-planning-drama#axzz2UnrVjtS5
Ever since my post, she has now escalated into a Bridesmaidzilla (BMZ). The bride doesn’t know where we’re celebrating but everytime the bride mentions how excited she is, BMZ would say some sort of sarcastic/snarky comment. I personally don’t know why BMZ is even attending one night of the bachelorette, but everyone especially the bride doesn’t appreciate her attitude at all.
Aside from the bachelorette party, she continues to not return phone calls, text messages and emails to anyone in the bridal party. She only responds at her convienence, usually after decisions have been made and then complains to the bride how she feels left out of everything. BMZ complains about our dresses (paid by the bride), hotel acommodations and now the bride’s color choice in shoes…but doesn’t try to offer help or suggestions. She pretty much just talk about herself, complain and make up excuses.
Currently, the bride vented to me how BMZ is whining about how broke she is and cannot afford to get her hair and makeup done for the wedding, as well as the cost of the hotel during the wedding weekend. We all know its BS because BMZ always posts on her fb pics of her getting drunk at bars, her latest splurges and haircuts/colors from high end salons. She’s also pissed at the bride that her “boyfriend” (or whatever he is….messy story) of 4+ years wasn’t invited to the wedding but my BF of 10 months is (which I didn’t ask the bride to invite him). BMZ has been using this to back up the fact that she can’t afford to stay even (at least) one night by herself in a hotel room. One of the BM lives in the same town the wedding’s being held but refuses to open up her home because of how BMZ has been a pain in the ass during this time period.
At this point, I don’t really know how to support the group. I personally would have kicked BMZ out if I was the bride. I also don’t know if its my place to even try to talk to BMZ about her behavior, since I don’t know her very well. Any advice, insights or tips would be appreciated.