Post # 1
I am so upset my blood is boiling. Today is exactly one year from the big day! I posted on Facebook this morning how excited I am, and my cousin/bridesmaid posted “Ugh, one year till I have to be in your wedding :/”…now I know you cant really read emotion and how she meant that, but I know my cousin and she meant it in a negative way. She has been negative through the whole planning process. Everytime I have an idea she has something negative to say. I feel like I want to just punch her in the face, but at the same time she is my cousin and I keep asking myself is my wedding more important to me than my family. I do not know how to handle this without a huge fight. HELP!!!!!
Post # 3
Sorry! That sucks. Some people are just bitter Betty’s.
Personally, I would confront her. Calmly, but firmly. I would say, “I saw your post on my FB status and I can’t help but feel it was not a joke. If you really feel that way i don’t want to force you to be in my wedding if you are not happy about it. Why do you feel this way?” Put it back on her.
Your wedding IS important. You should not be putting the happiness of an immature cranky cousin before yours for this occaision. 🙂
Post # 4
I would probably just comment on her reply saying, “So don’t be :)”
But I’m a jerk like that.
Post # 5
I am sorry…. If it was me I would ask her in person if she really wants to be in your wedding and if she doesn’t seem like she does, boot her. You don’t need that drama 🙁
Post # 6
linguo42: HA! I like that!
Post # 7
I wouldn’t get so worked up about, just shoot a quick response back making clear that she doesn’t HAVE to be in the wedding, and she’s perfectly welcome to attend as just a guest.