(Closed) Bridezilla?….how about Manzilla?….is it ever the groom?

posted 8 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
570 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I am so sorry you are going through this! I know the best medicine for this is communication, even if you have to halt the wedding plans for a couple weeks just to see what is going to happen with him. If he is doing this to you, and not being himself, there is obviously something wrong, and the best thing you can do is just talk to him. If wedding planning stresses him out, perhaps you and your girls should take over, and he should limit himself to how much he is helping in the wedding planning area.

Good luck!

Post # 4
573 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I can’t say I’ve really experienced that myself, but my groom was a bit weird about wedding stuff (wanting to do things, but not getting them done, then being a jerk when I’d bring it up and offer to help). He totally acted like a diva a couple of times, yelling at the hotel people to reopen our room block for his brother who spaced on getting his reservation, insisting that our rehearsal dinner be held in a specific room of a particular restruant (which was fine, since his parents were paying).

The best advice I have is to (calmly, and in the most caring tone possible) state what behaviors you are seeing and how it makes you feel. Talk about it in specific, objective terms (things a stranger could observe, rather than emotionally charged words). Good luck, and I hope the communication opens up!

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