(Closed) Briesmaid/Friend Drama

posted 5 years ago in Reception
  • poll: What should I do?
    Ignore the situation, its my day : (9 votes)
    82 %
    Ask her to be involved in another way : (2 votes)
    18 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    3569 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    Let it go. I think inviting her to other things can come off as an insult rather then a compliment depending on what it is, and her feelings are probably hurt and she more then likely get over it eventually.

    Post # 4
    Member
    8697 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @jess0903:  I’m not sure if she is upset over not being picked as BM that you should ask her to be a free DOC. Everything you described is what a DOC does. I wouldnt want to do that even as a BM. I think you should let it go like a PP stated.

    Post # 5
    Member
    2420 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    Um, I am still shocked over the dad saying he wanted to be a groomsman. I have seen the dad being the best man, but never a groomsman.

    I think you should ask your friend to do something in another way. Coordinating is a good idea.

    Post # 7
    Member
    12250 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2013

    If she’s talking shit about not being in the wedding… Imagine the havoc she would cause if she were involved! BM dresses/shoes/hairstyles, planning the shower/bachelorette… It would be a nightmare!

    Post # 9
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    8697 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @jess0903:  I wouldnt ask her anything. I would invite her to some of the festivities like your bachelorette but that is it. She sounds annoying as it is by the fact that she is upset. EVERYONE cannot be in your wedding. People have to understand that and get over it. I have some good friends I didnt ask. I was not interested in having 10 bridesmaids. They are not mad, we are still close, 4 are coming to my bachelorette in Jamaica. If she is a real friend she will still be there after your wedding.

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