Bringing an extra guest (kind of WR)?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
45141 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

PumpkinPie-PeachyKeen:  If she’s a friend, I’m sure you can contact her to “clarify if SO is invited or not?”

They may not have extended plus ones unless you are in a long term relationship, living together or engaged. I assume she would know what your status is.

Post # 3
3762 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Who was the envelope addressed to?

Post # 4
1411 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Personally, I don’t think it hurts to ask. A couple of people asked me if they could bring extra guests, I wasn’t offended that they asked, I told one person yes and the other person no. 🙂

Post # 5
1088 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

There’s really no harm in asking, if you’re polite about it!  I was visting my sister out of town once and she had a wedding to go to, and she politely asked if I could attend and they said yes, as they had cancellations, and it wasn’t a problem at all.

Post # 6
1997 posts
Buzzing bee

Go ahead and ask. But unless his name was on the invite or it said ms. Pumpkinpie and guest on the invite, I would say he isn’t invited. But it never hurts to ask if you can at least bring him to the ceremony.

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