Bringing up Pregnancy With my MOH

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

I would t ask her about it. If she’s worried about it, I think she’ll come to you.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

If she’s pregnant, she’ll order a bigger size. I wouldn’t worry about it. Most people don’t get pregnant within the first few months of marriage anyway.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee

@Cornmuffin09:  Even if she says yes, there is no telling how her TTC journey will go.  She could be KU already or not get pregnant for 3 years.

Cross that bridge if/when you get to it.

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

No. Don’t ask! She’ll say something to you if she’s worried about it, and/or if she actually does get pregnant, you can deal with it then. 

 

Post # 7
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I’d just slip it in like a casual comment “Hey, when are you guys going to start trying? I want to make sure you’ll actually be able to fit into your MOH dress!”

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

i wouldn’t bring it up. if she thinks it’s going to be a concern, she’ll say something herself. also like others said, unless she’s already preg, there’s no guarantee that she will be by your wedding

 

ETA: also i feel like that isn’t necessarily info everyone would feel comfortable being asked about, but you know her best

 

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I really don’t think you should ask. Of course you are sisters, but that is private between her and her husband and could stir up pain for her if she is having problems in that department for whatever reason. I think you should notify her that you’re about to order dresses and just wanted to check with her that you had the right size. That question alone would be an indication to her to say she needs a bigger size, or to hold off and order something later, if she needs to due to pregnancy. Otherwise, proceed as usual. Good luck!

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