Broken engagement 4.5 months from wedding

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
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1049 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

You have such a great attitude!! I am so sorry how things turned out, but you are so right.  Pick yourself back up, take your dog and never look back!  What a scumbag.  

Don’t worry about what he’s saying to his social circle.. you never have to deal with them again! Focus on your circle.  

We have all been there at one point or another and you just have to keep reminding yourself it does get better, life goes on and you will find happiness rather than being stuck with this miserable D-bag.

Best of luck!!

Post # 6
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1737 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014 - 13th ~ TN

Anonymousbee330:  I am sorry to hear this. You sound strong and like you will make it through. Your family can not help you get home? Bus tickets are usually fairly cheap. Not the nicest way to travel but they will get you where you need to go.

Post # 8
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284 posts
Helper bee

Anonymousbee330:  You don’t need to talk about them, it’s pretty clear from your posts that you’re a lady who has it together. You know your own value, you aren’t letting somebody treat you this way, and you’re making your own way now. That’s something to be respected, I don’t think I would be functioning the way you are right now if I were in the same situation. You seem like an incredibly awesome person to me 🙂 You clearly had a lot of plans, and it isn’t your fault that this didn’t pan out the way it should have.

Lots of hugs, and employment-vibes!

Post # 9
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868 posts
Busy bee

Anonymousbee330:  wow way to be proactive and get to the better side of things girl! Good for you for putting one foot in front of the other! You will be better for it! Keep moving along you will be able to move out soon. A tip here is to block all his family and friends on social media ect, who gives a sh– what they think, his problem now. And also make sure to take all the things that are yours in the house( no need to be nice here) don t leave anything out of courtesy that’s yours. 

Post # 10
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233 posts
Helper bee

Anonymousbee330:  You really are an amazing person. I think about some of the things that have broken me down in my life and the strength you are showing while going through this puts me to complete shame. You rock girl! Reading this story and feeling how positive you’re being through all of this (even in your down times) is so inspirational. Sending you so many positive vibes, I hope they reach you 🙂

Post # 11
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245 posts
Helper bee

I love your attitude, your ex sounds like pond scum and I’m assuming you’re young and will bounce back from all this, meet someone great and get the beautiful wedding you deserve. & you have your dog, even in the lowest times they can help us feel better! Maybe you’re just a bigger person, but I personally would have told all his friends and family by now what a low life cheating liar he is 🙂

  • This reply was modified 2 years, 6 months ago by  weddinglimes.
Post # 12
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8025 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

Anonymousbee330:  I am so sorry! But mostly I am proud you had the good sense to do this. It’s classy of you to keep the dirty details to yourself- but if he keeps running his mouth I would be hard pressed not to let the truth fly.

wishing you the strength and grace to get through this and good luck in your job search. 

Post # 13
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163 posts
Blushing bee

best of luck to you OP – wishing you as much happiness for the future as possible – seems like you dodged a bullet with this scum and you can do a million times better 

Keep that positive attitude you are amazing! 

Post # 14
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116 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Anonymousbee330:  so sorry to hear this. I had a sililar situation before and I know how tough it can be. One bonus is at least you arent on the mortgage and don’t have that and the hassle of sorting that side of things out too tieing you both together. Good luck with the job search and, I hope you don’t mind me saying, well done, for having the courage and self confidence to not take his cr*p and walk away from it all. Your worth so much more than what he was offering! Wishing you all the happiness for the future and lots of positive things to come your way.

Post # 15
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38 posts
Newbee

I’m very sorry you’re going through this! But you have a plan and actively searching on how to make your life better. And in that I have to commend you! Wishing you all the best!

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