broken off engagement

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
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  • Wedding: January 2013

I know this is hard to hear, but if you feel anxiety about staying with him, call the wedding off!  It sounds like you already have, since you said that you “called things off”, but if you haven’t, it may be smart to do so.  Maybe he’s just not at an emotional state to get married yet.  It seems that some men need time to grow into a family man mindset.

If you think you want to spend your life with him, I think that you should back off, work on your friendship together, and move your relationship forward more slowly.  It sounds like you two have to work on companionship, at the very least.  If it were me, I’d end the relationship, tell him to leave me alone for a little while, and clear my mind.  After you’d had some space, the answer that’s best to you will feel just feel right.  

And don’t let yourself be miserable.  Treat yourself and celebrate that your life is in your hands.  

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