- 4 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
This is just a rant, but I recently learned my brother’s gf, lets call her Ms. X (who I and other family members are not particularly fond of for many reasons) is annoyed at me because, get this…on my wedding I wouldn’t let her invite a friend.
Now, let me explain how the conversation with my mom went THE DAY OF THE WEDDING while I’m getting my hair/make up done in the bridal suite:
Mom: (pops head in door) Hey, Ms. X wants to know if [friend name here] can come today?
Me: [stares] Um, what?
Mom: (this is where she realizes she prolly shouldn’t have came in and asked me that)
Me: No. What the hell. Hell. No.
Mom: Oh, she didn’t know if she was allowed a plus one.
Me: [stares some more] Mom, she IS [brother’s name] PLUS ONE. PLUS ONES CAN’T HAVE PLUS ONES! AND EVEN IF THEY COULD, THEY CAN’T INVITE THEM THE DAY OF THE FRIGGIN WEDDING!!! Is she INSANE? (I was total bridezilla at that moment)
Mom: Okay. I’ll go tell her no then.
So at this point, I was pretty pissed. My BMs were all pretty appauled that i got asked that. The girl she wanted to invite, I didn’t even know and DH hasn’t seen or talked to this girl in over 5 or 6 years (I asked him if he would have wanted her as a guest and he said no). The icing on the cake is that she showed up 45 minutes late (i think out of spite) and wouldnt have made it to the ceremony had it started on time.
Fast forward to today, I learn she has been calling me a b**** and rude for making her sit alone since my brother was in the wedding party. And to honest, I had forgotten all about that incident, as I had the wedding of my dreams and married the man I love, but now I’m a little pissed off again.
Sigh. Just ranting. I just don’t think she has the right to call me names.
🙂 Anyway, thanks for reading through my crazy train of thought. Just frustrated at this girl.