@Lacelibs: i know this post is from 5 months ago, but i’m having a brunch wedding on 7-6-13! our budget is VERY small and we’re paying for it entirely ourselves, so this seemed like the most economical choice! at first i was a little bummed, but now i’m stoked. firstly because I LOVE BRUNCH! i live in a big city and it’s almost uncommon to NOT get brunch on the weekends. also, when our wedding is over, my new husband and i will be able to go and get dinner alone and relish in the fact that we’re married! this idea makes me so excited. finally, after dinner, we’ll be going out on the town in our wedding getups (it gave me the excuse to purchase a shorter, less formal dress) with our closest friends for the after-party! i can’t wait!
my day will begin at 6am when our makeup and hair stylists will begin doing hair and makeup for myself and the 9 closest ladies in my life (my mom, his mom, my sister/MOH, 5 BMs, 1 junior BM) at my hotel suite. our photographer will arrive at the hotel at 9-9:30 for pictures before we leave for the venue. the ceremony is starting at 11am with cocktail hour and then reception immediately after in the same location. our ceremony will be outside- fingers crossed for a perfect summer day! we have a string trio that will be playing the ceremony music beginning at 10:30 as guests start to make their way to their seats. our ceremony will be short, sweet, and non-secular. we haven’t decided yet if we want readings or anything like that.
the string trio will continue to play throughout cocktail hour. we’re doing beer, wine, mimosas and bloody marys (i’m obsessed w/bloody marys!). during cocktail hour, we’ll have trays of fresh fruit, pastries and bagels out for guests to pick on. after cocktail hour, we will have a buffet spread of scrambled eggs, french toast, bacon and sausage, roasted potatoes, cavatelli with broccoli in an oil and garlic sauce, chicken picatta, and a salad of mixed greens with grape tomatoes, dried cranberries, candied walnuts, gorgonzola, and apple slices. one of my bridesmaids is a cupcake baker and has graciously donated her services for dessert. my fiance’s cousin’s fiance (that’s a mouthful!) will be baking the groom’s cake- a cake in the shape of a dirtbike (my fiance used to race motorcross- at one point he was 8th in the nation- he was only 13 but i love to brag!).
we’re not huge dancers- but we are music snobs- so we’re opting for the old iPad instead of a DJ. knowing our friends, a dance party could erupt anywhere as long as there’s speakers and spotify! we’re also using an iPad for a photobooth (http://www.weddingboothapp.com/) by mounting it to a mic stand using this guy (http://tinyurl.com/a3yt8ma).
for decor, we’ll have a ton of DIY elements. our “theme” is vintage/handmade/rustic and mostly just comfortable. we don’t want anything to feel too stuffy. i made a sign that says our names with a heart and arrow pointing toward the location using salvaged wood and white paint. i made chalkboard table numbers using picture frames and chalkboard paint. i made a seating chart using kraft tags, twine, and an old window pane (pics to come!). i made the boutonnieres from fake flowers and leaves from a local craft store. we have mason jars wrapped with lace and twine which i’ll be planting succulents in for the centerpieces- like this:
i think some tables will have succulents, some flowers- not sure yet. i was a little nervous as to how i’m going to get all these DIY pieces to the venue, set them up to how i want them to look, etc. which is why i hired a day-of-coordinator. we didn’t really have room in the budget for this, but i found a retired party planner and i contacted her to see if she’d like to make a little bit of extra $ on a saturday. she knows my venue well and was thrilled to be asked to do a wedding again. she’s going to be at my rehearsal where i will give her everything- all the DIY pieces, centerpieces, etc. and she will arrive to my venue early in the morning to make sure it all looks perfect. because she is retired, she is only charging me $200- which i’ll gladly pay for piece of mind!
i haven’t decided yet if i want to order from an online wholesaler, or if i want to take a trip to trader joe’s to pick up our flowers. either way, i’m having my bridesmaids and some family members help me put together bouquets and centerpieces the day before the wedding.
for the stationery- i used vistaprint for our Save-The-Date Cards (i just posted them here: http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/i-just-finished-our-save-the-dates-in-vistaprint) and i downloaded a printable wedding set from EM Papers (http://empapers.com/) which i’ll be printing myself on ivory card stock with kraft envelopes. i will be adding a map to the invitation suite which i made in paint! i’ll also be printing the place cards myself.
our reception will be over at 4pm and i think it’s a perfect time for everyone to go back to the hotel, relax, eat, and get ready to go out for the after party at night!
i see that you’re wedding is in april- are you still planning a brunch wedding? tell me about it!