(Closed) bumming about not having anyone to be my bridesmaids

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
14498 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

You have plenty of time to make friends, I would get involved in something like a club or a charity.  I think that you will see how quickly you make friends.  You have almost a year and a half, give it six months and you will see how the situation changes.  Maybe you could get together with one of the MN bees to help you get started.  Are you in Minneapolis?  If you are there are a ton of meetups on meetup.com for anything you might be interested in.

Post # 4
172 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I agree with tksjewelry, you have plenty of time from now until then to make new friends but if not, I don’t see a problem with not having any bridesmaids.  I would want friends who will stand the test of time to be with me when I get married.  I don’t think there are any rules saying that you can’t get married without bridesmaids.  Stay positive and best of luck 🙂

Post # 5
629 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I can totally relate. I think about this a decent amount too. You’re not alone!

Post # 6
220 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I agree with the suggestions above.  Also, try to reconnect with your old friends’ and see if that “flame” (haha!) is still there.

Like mandigrl said, you’re not alone…

does he have any sisters? don’t exclude close guy friends too

Post # 7
215 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’m in the same boat. I have my sister and my sil and thats it. I would like one more. For no good reason other than I always wanted three lol.

Post # 8
1136 posts
Bumble bee

I’m in the same boat. I might not have any at all

Post # 9
330 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m the same! Ugh, even invited to my party, I have like no friends. I’m really sad, but I hope somehow I can figure out who will be a bridesmaid, or no one. 

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