Post # 1
Has anyone done/are doing a butterfly release at their wedding or during their exit? Any tips of suggestions? Does anyone know of any good and cheap websites for butterflies for a butterfly release? Please let me know.
Post # 3
I haven’t done one but my fiancee did one in his prior marriage and he said most of the butterflies didn’t even fly. It turned out to be very anti-climactic and a bit depressing. I’ve heard this from others too.
Don’t want to burst your idea bubble, or be negative, but I wanted to make sure you knew that the butterflies have to be kept in the fridge to help them hibernate I suppose and often they don’t fly at wedding time. I’ve heard of them falling to the ground even. Not good for them OR for your wedding. Maybe pick a different route??
Post # 4
My cousin did a butterfly release at her wedding. She had all the butterflys in envelopes for guests to hold and then open at the end of the ceremony. I would sat 1 in 3 flew. a few were crushed and a TON of people had major ethical concerns about it.
(I personally think it is incredibly cruel, but I kept my mouth shut and chose not to take an envelope)
Post # 5
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE reconsider.
Here are a few reasons why its cruel – and also some great non-living alternatives:
Nothing says “romance is in the air” like….a pigeon pooping on Gramma!
When you’re dealing with live animals, “cheap” should be the LAST of your requirements.
Also, its illegal in several states.
Post # 6
I love this idea. I was thinking about just my Fiance and I letting one go since I’m sure it’s expensive to order 120 butterflies. I’d love to see this in real life I’ve been to butterfly houses and it’s so awesome to see so many butterflies at once!
Post # 7
In real life, most of them are stunned from the sudden light exposure/temp change and just fall to the ground – if they’re not dead.
Butterfly houses are gorgeous though – so perhaps have your ceremony near one and take photos there? I know a few butterfly places that do weddings on site too.
Post # 8
@mandypop: I planned to raise my own butterflies if we do this. We’ve done this at my old job every year without any problems. =)
Post # 9
I personally think its a very cute idea but the one wedding that I saw that “attempted” to do this, did not turn out very well. All th butterflies were stuck in the envelope and didnt fly.
Post # 10
You should do a puppy release instead. They are less likely to get crushed to death in an envelope. There are thousands upon thousands of homeless animals euthanized every year due to overcrowding in shelters, so if you’re going to use living creatures as props for your wedding, you may as well use some cute pups already on death row…then people can take them home as favors 🙂
**Disclaimer: no puppies were harmed in the writing of this post.
**Also- it is written in sarcasm font.
Post # 11
@DaneLady: Win x 567436786543
Post # 12
@DaneLady: LOL. Careful now, that may actually sound like a good idea to some…
Post # 13
This is one of those things that seems like a better idea than it usually is. In addition to the ethical concerns, (which are plenty), the resulting photographs tend to end up looking more like this:
In the set of photos from the butterfly release from this wedding, I don’t think there was even one usable image of the bride and groom. A few cute ones of the flower girl, but overall, not a great result.
Post # 14
@DaneLady: I’m totally doing this at my future wedding. Maybe we can add it to the Lisa Frank discussion from a few weeks ago if we give them a temp dye in neon?
Post # 15
Every time I see this done on TV (i.e. Four Weddings) the butterflies don’t even fly and it ends up looking ridiculous. I also believe it is very cruel (sorry, gotta be honest). I would NEVER do it.
Post # 16
@jpalm13: Dying puppies neon colors is just cruel.