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Buyer's remorse... honest thoughts on this dress?

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    Wormalita    December 31, 2012   Boston

    So, I put this dress on layaway yesterday but woke up with a bit of buyer's remorse. I was originally attracted to the dress because of its simplicity - but now I'm afraid it's TOO SIMPLE! And boring.

    I'm having a small wedding at home and don't want a completely extravagant dress that doesn't fit the setting. But I still want to wow my fiance! And I'm not sure if this will do the job. Am I being crazy right now?!

    On a side note, I was thinking I could spice it up with an interesting veil or accessories. Any ideas?

    Thanks y'all! 

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    KateByDesign    October 29, 2011   Fairfax, Virginia

    I think that the front is very pretty, but simple.  But to be honest (as you've asked), i don't like the back of the dress.  It looks like jersey knit material  :/  

    It is a great shaped dress for you though.

     
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    mink    June 2012   Charlottesville, Virginia

    I love the back!  I think it's romantic, feminine, and has a touch of whimsy.

    It's like a softened, more romantic take on the Pippa dress.  It's beautiful!!!

     
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    auggiefrog    August 25, 2012   Wauwatosa, WI

    I think the dress looks great on you and the back is fun and flowy!

     
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    2ndtime    April 16, 2011  

    I like the dress and it is perfect for your venue.  It is very romantic.  Before I finished reading your post I was thinking the right accessories would make things pop.  Then I saw the back of the dress and thought the dress already has a unique feature.  No need to try to make things pop.  I really like that it is simple in the front and detailed in the back.  In my book simple means classic, sophisticated and elegant.  And... the dresss looks fantastic on you!

     
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    Amanda_Rae    May 12, 2012  

    I think it looks very romantic, but go with your gut feeling! 

     
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    LittleRiver    October 13, 2012   NYC

    I think it is lovely on you!

     
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    kc3636    August 23, 2011  

    I love the back of the dress! Sooo flattering and sexy on you!! I think the front needs something and some really nice accessories will do the trick!

     
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    Bride2BeeVA28    October 6, 2012  

    I love it on you. That is a dress few women can wear. Earrings and a statement necklace would really complete the look.

     
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    o0olibelulao0o    April 14, 2012   Texas Hill Country

    I think once the dress is fitted better (it looks a bit loose in the back) you will feel a million times better about it...  I love simple dresses, and you are one of the blessed few who can pull off the flowy cascading silk dresses like that!  It looks awesome!

     
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    MrsNeutrino    July 2012  

    I actually love your dress! You could def spice it up with accessories but honestly, you don't really need to. The simplistic elegance speaks for itself. It is beautiful, and not everyone looks beautiful in that fabric. You do. Rock it.

     
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    CharmCityLady    January 2012  

    That is a stunning dress, and you look amazing in it! 

     
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    Tina.Baker    June 2, 2012  

    Typically I wouldn't like this style of dress but I agree that you in this dress makes it stunning. A great necklace would be icing on the cake.  I think it is the perfect choice and you can rock it!

     
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    redband    May 5, 2012   Amsterdam

    I think your dress is really pretty and I love the back!

    However, one thing- the material basically hides nothing so I would suggest that you wear proper underwear on your wedding day (no idea which torsolette would work, maybe Carnival Invisible? Not sure if you can see the boning under that dress)

     
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    calypso522    May 19, 2012   Virginia

    I think you have the perfect body shape for this dress, but I agree it's a little simple.  Pippa made simple very chic, though... so it's definitely in style!  I'd try to find a blingy belt/sash thing to try on if you want to add something.  You can also find appliques for the necklines or anywhere on the dress as well.  They have so many with pretty crystal designs that may make you say "wow."  Dramatic jewelry and an embellished veil may do the trick for you too!  

    I think you could rock it without any changes too, but do what makes you happiest on your big day!!!

     
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    reginaphalange    March 10, 2012   Brooklyn

    This dress looks absolutely beautiful on you. Not too many women can wear a dress of that material and shape - your waist looks amazing!

    I think you should give it another chance and try it on wearing some accessories (I'm imagining a big art deco bracelet and either a medium length or birdcage veil), and see what you think again. It might change your perspective. If you're still second guessing after that, you should continue looking.

    PS If you need help finding something to wear underneath, PM me. I too have a 30s style silk dress and finally found the perfect things to wear without any visible seams or lumps.

     
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    LunaMin    June 4, 2011   Michigan

    The dress looks amazing on you! You could do something fun with your hair or wear a blingy necklace or earrings  if you still think it needs more pizazz.

     
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    Debbie1031    July 7, 2012   Buffalo, NY

    It's beautiful! Perfect for you and for the venue. And it looks incredibly comfortable! I'd absolutely keep it!

     
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    I think your dress is incredible! Granted, I might be biased bcnit has a similar silhouette to my own weddIng dress but for your venue and description of your wedding, I think it's perfect! I'm all about simple elegance, which is your dress exactly!

     
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    maudemaisha       Montreal

    I wish I could rock that dress like you do ! IMO, it definately has a wow factor ! I love it :)

    That being said, it is YOUR day. You need to love it like we do :) How do you feel now ? 

     
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    BayStateBride    September 1, 2012   Massachusetts

    Well you've definitely got the body to rock that dress.

    I agree with adding some bling though. I've seen some wicked cute sparkly sash/belts floating around the Bee, or try Etsy.

     
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    soon2beMRSgq    September 2012   boston, ma

    It's a beautiful dress.  You deff look "wow" in it!!  It looks amazing on your figure!

     
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    cejo13    May 18, 2013   Michigan

    I really like the dress and honestly, all you really need is a beautiful necklace - maybe something that glitzes up the front of the dress? The back doesn't need anything, it's beautiful.

     
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    heathere    October 2, 2010  

    That is seriously one of the most beautiful dresses I have seen.  And not many could wear it - so please dont change it.  If you were to keep the dress as-is (without adding belts or anything directly to the dress) you would make a very elegant statement by having your hair done with romantic flowers woven in, or sparkly broach-like accessories in it.  Or you cold have some dazzle from a pair of elaborate earrings instead...

    I think you will feel much better once ou try this dress on with your hair done and some accessories, because its STUNNING. 

     

     
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    ebet24    May 20, 2012   Nashville, TN

    I think you look beautiful! The dress sounds perfect for your venue and looks amazing on you.

     
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    HueysLuda    August 4, 2012   Maryland (DC Metro Area)

    I love it! Very femine with an undercover sexy...I think its beautiful front and back.

     
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    mypinkshoes    April 28, 2012   mexico/ontario

    i think you could pull any dress off (you have a lovely figure).  however, this one looks like it needs some altering to fit you better. what material is this?  did you try a lot of dresses on?

    go with your heart on this.  how do you feel when you put it on?

    you can always dress it up like you menttioned.  veil, jewellery, hairdo, etc.

     

     
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    AstoriaKatie    September 7, 2012   CT

    I think this dress is amazing, elegant, and different. Sometimes it's best to keep it simple, especially if that is your style. And as PPs have mentioned, this dress can be accessorized in so many ways!! Congratulations on picking out such a beautiful dress!

     
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    luli29    October 9, 2010   Massachusetts

    that dress is gorgeous, and you look gorgeous in it! love, love, love!

     
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    ashleyswedding    June 2, 2012  

    I love the back of this dress! It looks perfect for an intimate wedding

     
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    FutureMrsKuck    July 14, 2012   Oklahoma

    Honestly, while it is simple, it is absolutely beautiful!  I think the simplicity adds to the beauty.  It fits your body amazingly and you just look stunning.  I think if you dress it with a few accessories and a beautiful veil, it would be just incredible.  

     
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    Honest opinion? I think the dress is great. It's nice to see a dress that isn't drowning in layers of sparkles, ruffles and pickups.

     
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    Bubu82    October 1, 2011   Indianapolis, IN

    I love it! You have a killer figure, and it shows it off but without being over-the-top. You look romantic and graceful and elegant.

     
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    Jamcnair    October 20, 2012   Morristown, Tennessee

    I think some beautiful hair bling would add just the right touch!

     
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    ohmybears48    September 28, 2013   Chicago, IL

    This dress is gorgeous! With the right statement necklace and earrings, you will be so stunning! 

     
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    aadam027    October 6, 2012   Virginia

    I love this dress.as others have said, totally reminds of Pippa's dress!! I think that once you have you veil, jewelry, and hair/makeup done, you won't think it's plain.

     
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    JessicaVictoria814    August 6, 2011   Pittsburgh

    I actually LOVE the back! Spice it up with accessories and shoes. I'm picturing a few thin delicate stackcable bangles and a statement necklace, which you could get away with b/c it wouldn't be competing with dress due to it's elegant simplicity. 

    And I agree with Katyelle that it IS nice to see a dress that isn't all sequins, pickups and the like. 

     

     

     
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    squeak    August 20, 2014   California

    I think it's very beautiful. Have you considered using a fancy (either lace or rhinestone) sash for the middle? You can find some gorgeous ones on etsy.

     
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    AmeliaBedelia    March 3, 2012   Georgia

    You are one of the few lucky brides that can TOTALLY pull this dress off! I say rock it. I wouldn't go over the top with the accessories. I think a big sparkly hair clip and maybe some strands of pearls would be perfect.

     
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    MissTX    May 17, 2013   Texas

    HONEST OPINION: I think it's of course, very simple. The back makes up for the front being so "plain" ( I had to use that word but I don't mean it in a negative way ) because of all the ruffles, I just love the back. I love the front too, it just depends on the look you are going for and your venue, decor, overall FEEL of the wedding. I could definitely picture this is a smaller/not as formal wedding...for sure. If that is you in the picture, it looks GREAT with your figure. I don't think I could pull something like that off because the material is a little bit more light weight it would show every nook and cranny and bump and lump LOL. Plus my 'girls' are a little on the bigger side so I wouldn't know how to go about the bra situation. But, I really like the dress and it looks fab on you! Get an awesome necklace or some super great chandelier earrings to dress it up a little if you want :) I like it. My vote: keep it!

     

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