(Closed) Cake in face! How do you feel about it?

posted 5 years ago in Reception
  • poll: How do you feel about cake being smushed in your face?
    Go for it- It's all in fun! : (31 votes)
    9 %
    Just deal with it. : (12 votes)
    3 %
    Not going to happen! : (315 votes)
    88 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    6360 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I don’t like it (we are generally not rude to each other for other people’s amusement) and we won’t be doing it. I don’t think it really needs a replacement, it’s not like not doing it will really cause an awkward lull or something.

    Post # 4
    Member
    3141 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I said it wasn’t an option at our wedding bride exactly that reason I spent hundreds on hair and make up and more on dress to waste it with smashed cake in my face so we agreed. We had a jack n Jill shower so that is when we smushed cake as i don’t wear make up normally. 

    Post # 5
    Member
    2073 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Feed each other a small bite with forks?

     I think you’ll find a lot of the ladies on this site don’t find it cute or fun.

    I find cake smashing horribly disrespectful and awkward to watch. I cringe when I see couples do this. It didn’t occur at my wedding. My mom said she would have sent us the entire bill for the wedding if we smashed cake. It was the one thing she was adamant about not occurring.  Needless to say, it didn’t occur.

    Post # 6
    Member
    126 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Yeah, I have to agree with the other Bees! I am spending too much on my hair, makeup, etc. and my FI and I generally would not be amused by smashing cake in each others faces..so, no cake smash. I don’t think it needs a replacement. We are just going to cut the cake, feed one another, and move on. 

    Post # 7
    Member
    5894 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I told DH that if he did that to me, we’d be visiting the divorce lawyer instead of going on our honeymoon. I find it to be very disrespectful. Not just the hair, makeup dress issue. Smashing food into someones face, not cool. Not to mention, the sybolism of your commitment to provide for each other with loving care. I’m so uncomfortable when I see couples do the smash.

    I’d be interested to see if divorce rates are higher in cake smashers vs, non-cake smashers.

    Post # 8
    Member
    10454 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2014

    Absolutely not! What’s wrong with feeding each other nicely?

    Post # 9
    Member
    4436 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    Definitely not going to happen to me!!

    Post # 10
    Member
    2956 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 1998

    I hate seeing this being done.

    It looks really childish to me and would never do it. 

    Post # 11
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    2515 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    we didn’t do it. i hate it! i reminded DH right before we cut the cut not to smash it in my face and our photographer got a pic of it. it looks like i’m threatening DH with a knife. it’s pretty funny. 

    Post # 12
    Member
    480 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2015

    I’m really not a fan… You spend how long on your hair and makeup, and pay how much money on it and your dress just for it to be ruined?! Also, wedding cake is freakin’ expensive!! Tongue Out I think FI and I will be getting cute little forks and will feed each other, there’s no way in hell I’m getting cake shmooshed in my face!! 

    Post # 13
    Member
    719 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2014 - South Bonson Pier & Community Centre

    I have nightmares about this! I’ve warned FI so many times tha the marriage will not be consummated if that happened. lol

    Post # 14
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    8487 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2014

    I dont have a problem with it in general… I just dont want to have to deal with icing on my face. But I dont find it rude or disrespectful.

    Post # 15
    Member
    859 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2018

    It sounds fun.  I’m doing my own make up and hair so it’s nothing major to me.

     

    Post # 16
    Member
    855 posts
    Busy bee

    I think it’s awful. My FI would be sleeping alone on the wedding night if he did that. He knows me well enough to know that is not ok.

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